"hoto" A lady walked into our business place. She look beat out. The manager said to her" You look like you have been mauled by a bear" She reply" I wish it was a man" Her husband had run off. To keep a man, a woman must learn that skill from another man. We know the phrase" It take a thief to catch a thief" Women do not know how men think as they profess, just as how men do not know about the mind of a women. Not until we know what is going through our opponent mind, there is no chance of winning.

SETTING UP A RELATIONSHIP.

Before a woman start a relationship. She should be aware of the many kind of relationship there is and the kind the man is proposing to her. She must know the man’s needs for a woman, and see if her needs for a man match his.

(1) marriage relationship.

(2) Sweet heart relationship. If They both live together. It is a common law marriage.

(3) Business relationship. ( Sex and money exchange.)

(4) Sex for sex relationship. ( No money is exchange)

(5) Friendship. Nothing involve, just love each other company.

DIFFERENT GROUP OF MEN.

Men are as varied as the sands by the sea. Some love fat women while some love skinny. Some go es after married women, while some do not. There is a person for every one. You just have to know where to look.

MAMAS MAN.

Mamas man want a woman to replace his mother, to cook, wash and clean up after him. He has no other needs. He is not a bad person, and it is not sinful to want these things.

GOLD DIGGER.

Gold digger want a women to pay his bills. This is not a bad person either. The only different is that he will go to the highest bidder. Also there are different groups of gold diggers. Some give the women no service for their money. They just find a way to rob them. One thing I like about a gold digger. Good flowers giver.

SEX ORIENTED.

Sex oriented man do not care much if the woman is fat, ugly, pretty, rich are poor. As long as she can take care of business. If she cannot take care of his need he will find somebody else who can do it.

LOOKS ORIENTED.

Looks orientated man go after woman that look good. Long hair, long nails. Clear skin. This is not a bad person either. Only thing, if the woman gain weight, are have an accident and is disfigured in any way it is over. Also she is a prisoner to her own looks. Because if she loose it she loose him.

THE FAMILY MAN.

This one want a marriage. Want a family. Church going type of person. Settling down. This man can also be a sex oriented man. Are have a touch of the above.

The woman must know what group she involve with and want kind of relationship he is offering. What hurt many women is that they know that the man want a sweet heart kind of relationship. But she is confident that she can change him over. But when does a wolf ever become a sheep?

WOMEN MISTAKES.

Do not boast that you do not want a man. Your own mouth will sink you. Many women end up on the shelves, they fall into the pit that their mouth dugout. Never tell a man about the hurts that you get in a previous relationship. He will think that you have been used up, and burnt out. If you do not get over the hurt of the previous do not start a new one. Old grudges from previous relationship is one of the thing that kill the new one. A relationship is like a contract, make sure you bargain good. Asked questions. What are sexual preferences? Some men are homosexual but want a wife to make him look like he is not. You do not want to catch a frog for a fish. To keep the man you must act right, you cannot keep hurting his feelings on purpose, and think to keep him. If he is treated like an enemy, that is what you got. If he is treated like a stranger, that is what you got. You cannot hurt me and be my friend. Beware of the tricks of women friend, who tries to make you feel, like your man is not good.

Sirach 42: 13 For just as moths comes from garments, so harm to woman comes from woman.)( Sirach 37:8 Be on the alert when one proffers advice, find out first of all what he wants. For he may be thinking of himself alone; why should the profit fall to him? )( Sirach 30: 28 Painful things to a sensitive man are abuse at home and insults from his creditors.)( Sirach 25:12 Worst of all wounds is that of the heart, worst of all evils is that of a woman.

A man might look brilliant, but he cannot read mind. If you want him to know something, but are shy to tell him, how you feel, ask your good friend to convey the message, but do not make it look like it is a message. Do not use love to hurt him, that will confuses him. Men want more than sex. Men want a woman and a friend all in one package. Men want a wife and a sexing wife all in one package. A mother and a wife all in one package. You might say" How do I get the will to do all that? Jesus can help.

Proverbs 3:6-AV In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

St. Mt 6:33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

2 Corinthians 6:2-AV---behold, now [is] the accepted time; behold, now [is] the day of salvation. God has shown you what to do. )( Jesus call you to come.

St. MT 11:28 Come unto me, all [ye] that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.

Acts 4:12-AV Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.

Isa 1:18 Come now, and let us reason together, saith the LORD: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool. The Spirit call you to come.

Re 22:17 And the Spirit and the bride say, Come. And let him that heareth say, Come. And let him that is athirst come. And whosoever will, let him take the water of life freely. CHRIST DIED FOR YOU. Isa 53:5 But he [was] wounded for our transgressions, [he was] bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace [was] upon him; and with his stripes we are healed. Isa 53:6 All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned every one to his own way; and the LORD hath laid on him the iniquity of us all. God is ready to forgive and receive you.

St John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 1:12-AV But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, [even] to them that believe on his name.)( You have no excuse. Romans 1:20-AV For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, [even] his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse: Do not blame God if you find yourself in hell.)( My friend where will you spend your long eternity?

Romans 10:13-AV For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved. The word of God says" Whosoever, Whosoever, Whosoever" Make the commitment now. Sirach 5:8 Delay not your conversion to the Lord, put it not off from day to day). Would you bow your head right now and give your life to Christ? Accept him as your Savior today.

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