"htmarw"> One of my lady friend who has about three broken marriage. She asked me “ James what can I do to have a good relationship with a man?” I told her, the same principles that she applied to her job. She must applied it to her every day interaction with men. She is well educated, make good money. Big position in her church, and on her job. We worked on the same job. For months I did not talked to her, not malice, but I just have a negative impression of her. This is a woman that do not respect men in any form. And in fact she does. She say that she has no need for a man. And she display that attitude. But in ward she is crying out for one.

DO NOT TAKE AWAY HIS SPIRIT.

For example, a woman driving down the road beside her husband. They came to the stop light. Several people is now crossing the road. Several women crossing who looking good. She cover her husband face with her left hand. Are get upset if she think he is looking. The truth are. Women look at men just as how men look at women. The different are. Men stares, while women use their side way vision. To know if a woman is checking you out. You have to look at her eyes from the side. If the man choose to look at passing women, make him look. Just pretend not to see him look. Arguing over him looking. Will make him freeze up, and scare to have you are any woman family in his car.

BAD FANTASY.

Any fantasy that a woman imagine, and is doing. If her spouse is not enjoying the fantasy, discontinue doing it. It will disrupted the relationship

GET YOUR SPOUSE SIDE OF THE STORY.

Do not believe a thing about your man until you hear his side of the story. Regardless of who told you. Bear in mind that people sometime make honest mistake. Bear in mind that there are people who are liars. Are is just having a grudge against you.

LEAVE ROOM FOR RECONCILIATION.

People suppose to have a difference of opinion without using hurtful words. Sometime the way people went on. Led me to feel like there was a grudge hiding some place, in this person and this simple problem bring it out. I once have a problem with an in-law. Before the person discuss the problem they begin to describe my mother’s house. When they finish describe it. I have to say. “That is not a house” “That is bird ness” When the problem finally clear it self up. Up to this day I am still scared. I heard one little boy telling the other”“ You cannot pinch me and be my friend” You cannot be my woman and believe every bad thing you heard about me, without asking me my side of the story. Sometime a wife’s support is all a man have left. Men want support from his woman. Men want his woman to believe in him. When a man cannot get this, the whole thing simmer down to sex.

RESPECT.

A man will only act responsible in a home if he has a voice in the home. Therefore. A woman should choose a man that she do not find it hard to obey. To prevent tug of war, which will tour the relationship apart. Always choose a man that you will not find it hard to respect and obey.

a [Every wise woman ... foolish] Six contrasted classes: 1. The wise woman (Proverbs 14:1)

2. The foolish woman

3. The righteous (Proverbs 14:2)

4. The wicked and perverse

5. The foolish man (Proverbs 14:3)

6. The wise man

b [wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands] The wise woman through proper management increases the property, furniture, food and clothing of the household, but the thriftless woman causes these blessings to depart

OUR RELATIONSHIP WILL NEVER WORK IF IT IS NOT BASE ON SCRIPTURES

Ephesians 5:33-AV Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife [see] that she reverence [her] husband.)( This verse is a circle. A wife will not reverence a husband who do not love her. And a husband will not love a wife who do not reverence him.

1Peter 3:1-AV Likewise, ye wives, [be] in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;

Ephesians 5:23-AV For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

1Timothy 5:14-AV I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully.

Ephesians 5:24-AV Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so [let] the wives [be] to their own husbands in every thing. Ephesians 5:25-AV Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;)( This verse is a circle. Subject and love work together.

Colossians 3:18-AV Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. Colossians 3:19-AV Husbands, love [your] wives, and be not bitter against them. )( Submit and love work together. They are intertwine with each other. Where one stop is where the other one started. In such a way that you cannot tell where it stop from where it begin.

THE END.